Just a thought…
Do you treat strangers better than you treat your spouse?
Do you hold a door open for a elderly lady and not your spouse?
When you hang up the phone with your Pastor or whoever, do you tell them to have a fantastic and blessed day and when you speak to your spouse and get ready to hang up after talking for 5 minutes, you say Love you Bye and hang up?
You say you love them unconditionally but yet you treat the strangers better than your spouse. How does that add up?
Do you think about how your spouse feels and consider their emotions? Or do you just say that they will get over it? How long do you think they will “get over it”? Oneday it might be too late.
Who do you think you are? God’s gift to the world? Your spouse is just like you, a human with a beating heart.
If you love them, show it. If they mean the world to you, then fix what matters the most.
Waiting might be too late. Forgetting might be too late. Do they really matter? If so, then it shouldn’t be that hard to fix, that is, if you really want to fix it.